{"id":12301,"date":"2020-08-07T14:17:27","date_gmt":"2020-08-07T11:17:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/?p=12301"},"modified":"2020-08-16T19:36:23","modified_gmt":"2020-08-16T16:36:23","slug":"anne-baba-seminerleri-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/?p=12301","title":{"rendered":"Anne Baba Seminerleri – 2"},"content":{"rendered":"

ANNE BABA SEM\u0130NERLER\u0130 \u2013 2<\/strong><\/p>\n

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8 A\u011fustos 2020 Cumartesi g\u00fcn\u00fc (yar\u0131n) yap\u0131lacak 3. seminerimize kat\u0131l\u0131m linki almak i\u00e7in l\u00fctfen dernek@cigdemim.org.tr<\/a> adresine isim, telefon ve e-posta bilgilerinizi i\u00e7eren bir ileti g\u00f6nderiniz.<\/em><\/p>\n

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\u00c7i\u011fdemim Derne\u011fi\u2019mizin d\u00fczenledi\u011fi ve Agrega Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k\u2019tan Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fman \u00d6zge Tecelli\u2019nin verdi\u011fi 4 oturumdan olu\u015fan seminerler serisinin ikincisini 6 A\u011fustos 2020\u2019de (d\u00fcn ak\u015fam) ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdik. Bu seminerin konusu \u201c\u00c7OCUKLAR NE \u0130STER, ANNE BABALAR NE YAPAR<\/strong>\u201dd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Adeta bir aile toplant\u0131s\u0131 gibi s\u0131cak ve samimi bir \u015fekilde ba\u015flayan ve sonuna kadar ayn\u0131 g\u00fczellikte devam eden bu ikinci oturumda, \u00d6zge Tecelli sordu\u011fu sorularla kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131n da konuya dahil olmalar\u0131n\u0131, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla biraz daha kayna\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bu ba\u011flamda ilk soru \u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n nas\u0131l olmas\u0131n\u0131 istersiniz\u201ddi.<\/p>\n

Buna \u201cEtikleri olan, mutlu, sorumluluk sahibi, sevgi dolu, do\u011fa ve hayvan sevgisi olan, azimli\u201d gibi \u00e7ok \u00e7e\u015fitli cevaplar verildi.<\/p>\n

Bir sonraki soru ise \u015fuydu: \u201cG\u00f6zlemledi\u011finiz kadar\u0131yla, hata yapan \u00e7ocu\u011fa anne babalar nas\u0131l davran\u0131yor?\u201d<\/p>\n

Kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar bu soruya da \u201cAzar, dayak, \u00e7eki\u015ftirme, ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslama\u201d gibi cevaplar verdiler.<\/p>\n

Daha sonra \u00d6zge han\u0131m\u0131n \u201cCESARETLEND\u0130RME<\/strong>\u201dnin \u00f6n ko\u015fulu olan ve mutlaka kar\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131 gereken 4 temel duygunun, yani A\u0130T<\/strong><\/em>, YETERL\u0130<\/strong><\/em>, DE\u011eERL\u0130<\/strong> <\/em>ve CESUR<\/strong> <\/em>hissetmenin \u00f6nemini vurgulamas\u0131n\u0131 takiben, Say\u0131n Tecelli bug\u00fcn\u00fcn k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve yar\u0131n\u0131n yeti\u015fkininin hayatla m\u00fccadelesiyle ilgili \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir konuya daha de\u011findi.<\/p>\n

K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckken bisiklete binmek, y\u00fczmek gibi yeni aktiviteleri \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fimiz s\u00fcre\u00e7te kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zorluklarla ba\u015f etme y\u00f6ntemimizle, bug\u00fcn yeti\u015fkinken kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcklerle m\u00fccadele ve ba\u015f etme y\u00f6ntemimizin birebir ayn\u0131 oldu\u011funu, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckken bize o zorluklarda yard\u0131mc\u0131 olan ki\u015finin asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok de\u011ferli bir \u015fey yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bize sorun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc konusunda yol g\u00f6sterdi\u011fini belirtti. Ayr\u0131ca umut a\u015f\u0131laman\u0131n da \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu belirterek, bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendi gelece\u011finden umutlu olmas\u0131n\u0131n, akademik alanda \u00f6\u011frenmesi ve ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 \u00fczerinde \u00e7ok olumlu etkileri olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

Seminerin ilerleyen dakikalar\u0131nda \u00d6zge han\u0131m, yukar\u0131da bahsi ge\u00e7en 4 temel duygu ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131lanmamas\u0131 durumunda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n nas\u0131l davranabileceklerine dair \u00e7ok de\u011ferli ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 verdi. \u00d6rne\u011fin, aidiyet hissetmeyen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun dikkat \u00e7ekmek i\u00e7in a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flarda bulunaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya da kendini yeterli hissetmeyen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun s\u00fcrekli inatla\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bir g\u00fc\u00e7 sava\u015f\u0131na girece\u011fini anlatt\u0131. Bu tav\u0131rlar\u0131 dikkatle izledi\u011fimiz takdirde de \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzun asl\u0131nda neye ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu rahatl\u0131kla anlayabilece\u011fimizi ve hemen \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretebilece\u011fimizi s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocu\u011fumuzu cesaretlendirirken g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yanlar\u0131na odaklanmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini vurgulayan \u00d6zge han\u0131m, onun olumlu y\u00f6nlerini not etmemizi ve zaman zaman bu notlar\u0131 okumam\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6nerdi. Bu \u015fekilde, aniden geli\u015fen bir kriz s\u0131ras\u0131nda bu notlar\u0131 hat\u0131rlamam\u0131z\u0131n daha kolay olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

Kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lara bir de \u00f6dev veren Tecelli, seminer sonunda kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131n yorum, soru, ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 iletmelerini rica etti ve her yeni oturumda bizleri daha da i\u00e7ine alan bu seminerler serisinin ikincisi de kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00fczel dileklerle sonland\u0131. Say\u0131n \u00d6zge Tecelli’ye aktard\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011ferli ve \u00e7ok faydal\u0131 bilgiler i\u00e7in te\u015fekk\u00fcr ederiz.<\/p>\n

Elvan AKBAY – \u00c7i\u011fdemim Derne\u011fi YK \u00dcyesi<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

ANNE BABA SEM\u0130NERLER\u0130 \u2013 2 ——— 8 A\u011fustos 2020 Cumartesi g\u00fcn\u00fc (yar\u0131n) yap\u0131lacak 3. seminerimize kat\u0131l\u0131m linki almak i\u00e7in l\u00fctfen dernek@cigdemim.org.tr adresine isim, telefon ve e-posta bilgilerinizi i\u00e7eren bir ileti g\u00f6nderiniz. ——— \u00c7i\u011fdemim Derne\u011fi\u2019mizin d\u00fczenledi\u011fi ve Agrega Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k\u2019tan Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fman \u00d6zge Tecelli\u2019nin verdi\u011fi 4 oturumdan olu\u015fan seminerler serisinin ikincisini 6 A\u011fustos 2020\u2019de (d\u00fcn ak\u015fam) ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdik. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":748,"featured_media":12295,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[504],"tags":[515,511,510,512,479,513,516,514,87],"class_list":["post-12301","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eski-duyurular","tag-adler","tag-anne","tag-anne-baba","tag-baba","tag-cigdemim","tag-cocuk","tag-danismanlik","tag-iliski","tag-seminer"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12301","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/748"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12301"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12301\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12295"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12301"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12301"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12301"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}