{"id":12309,"date":"2020-08-09T14:41:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-09T11:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/?p=12309"},"modified":"2020-08-16T19:33:58","modified_gmt":"2020-08-16T16:33:58","slug":"anne-baba-seminerleri-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/?p=12309","title":{"rendered":"Anne Baba Seminerleri &#8211; 3"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>ANNE BABA SEM\u0130NERLER\u0130 \u2013 3<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2014\u2014\u2014<\/p>\n<p><em>10 A\u011fustos 2020 Pazartesi g\u00fcn\u00fc (yar\u0131n) yap\u0131lacak 4. ve bu serinin son seminerine kat\u0131l\u0131m linki almak i\u00e7in l\u00fctfen <a href=\"mailto:dernek@cigdemim.org.tr\">dernek@cigdemim.org.tr<\/a>&nbsp;adresine isim, telefon ve e-posta bilgilerinizi i\u00e7eren bir ileti g\u00f6nderiniz.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u2014\u2014\u2014<\/p>\n<p>8 A\u011fustos 2020 Cumartesi ak\u015fam\u0131 (d\u00fcn) ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilen ve \u201c<strong>Hayatla Ba\u015fa \u00c7\u0131kabilen \u00c7ocuklar<\/strong>\u201d konulu bu 3. seminerimiz \u00d6zge han\u0131m\u0131n bir \u00f6nceki seminerde verdi\u011fi \u00f6dev \u00fczerinde hep birlikte konu\u015farak ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zge han\u0131m, \u201c<em>disiplin<\/em>\u201d kelimesinin Latincede \u201c<em>\u00f6\u011frenmek<\/em>\u201d anlam\u0131na geldi\u011fini ve \u00f6\u011frenmenin ana kural\u0131n\u0131n da \u201c<em>umut etmek<\/em>\u201d oldu\u011funu vurgulad\u0131ktan sonra olaylara verdi\u011fimiz tepkilerin salt d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden de\u011fil, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi takiben hissetti\u011fimiz duygulardan da kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Yani \u00f6nce bir olay\u0131n oldu\u011funu, bunun \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin devreye girdi\u011fini, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme sonras\u0131nda bir duygumuzun olu\u015ftu\u011funu ve buna g\u00f6re tepki verdi\u011fimizi \u00f6\u011frendik. Bu da asl\u0131nda i\u00e7in i\u00e7in bildi\u011fimiz ama \u00d6zge han\u0131m\u0131n s\u00f6zlerinden sonra fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir konuydu.<\/p>\n<p>Yine kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lara sorular sorarak s\u00fcrece d\u00e2hil olmalar\u0131n\u0131 ve kalabal\u0131k bir ortamda olmalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131n kendilerini t\u00fcm i\u00e7tenlikleriyle ifade etmelerini sa\u011flayan Tecelli, doyurulmas\u0131 gereken 4 duyguyu ve bu duygular kar\u015f\u0131lanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n nas\u0131l tepki verebileceklerini \u00f6zetledikten sonra bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n yarar\u0131na olacak bir \u015fey yapma iste\u011fini yani \u201c<em>sosyal ilgi (social interest)<\/em>\u201d kavram\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131. \u00d6zge han\u0131m\u0131n bu \u201csosyal ilgi\u201d tan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 hayatta d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f, daha sonra yeniden aya\u011fa kalkm\u0131\u015f ve devam edebilmi\u015f ki\u015filerin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemesini takiben \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za bu 4 beceriyi kazand\u0131rmak, bir ba\u015fka deyi\u015fle ait, de\u011ferli, yeterli ve cesur hissetmek olarak s\u0131n\u0131fland\u0131r\u0131lan bu 4 duygunun doyurulmas\u0131 i\u00e7in yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekenleri de anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00f6rnek verecek olursak, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendini yeterli hissedebilmesi i\u00e7in kendini kontrol etmeyi \u00f6\u011frenmesinin sa\u011flanmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini vurgulad\u0131. Daha sonra da hepsi ayn\u0131 anlama gelen <em>psikolojik sa\u011flaml\u0131k, resilience, y\u0131lmazl\u0131k, esneklik, psikolojik dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k<\/em> kavramlar\u0131ndan bahsetti ve bu sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131 da umut, heves, gayret, iyimserlik, iyile\u015fmeye inan\u00e7 ve ba\u015fka yollar bulmaya inan\u00e7la sa\u011flayabilece\u011fimizi belirtti ve son b\u00f6l\u00fcmde yine kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lardan gelen sorular\u0131 yan\u0131tlayarak semineri sonland\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Her seminerde oldu\u011fu gibi bu sefer de ba\u015fkan\u0131m\u0131z Fatih bey mentimeter arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla, seminer sonras\u0131nda akl\u0131m\u0131zda kalan 3 kelimeyi sordu ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 iyi dileklerde bulunarak toplant\u0131dan ayr\u0131ld\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Bu de\u011ferli bilgileri ve \u00f6\u011fretileri i\u00e7in say\u0131n <strong>\u00d6zge Tecelli<\/strong>\u2019ye derne\u011fimiz ad\u0131na bir kez daha te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmek istiyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Elvan Akbay &#8211; \u00c7i\u011fdemim Derne\u011fi YK \u00dcyesi<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>ANNE BABA SEM\u0130NERLER\u0130 \u2013 3 \u2014\u2014\u2014 10 A\u011fustos 2020 Pazartesi g\u00fcn\u00fc (yar\u0131n) yap\u0131lacak 4. ve bu serinin son seminerine kat\u0131l\u0131m linki almak i\u00e7in l\u00fctfen dernek@cigdemim.org.tr&nbsp;adresine isim, telefon ve e-posta bilgilerinizi i\u00e7eren bir ileti g\u00f6nderiniz. \u2014\u2014\u2014 8 A\u011fustos 2020 Cumartesi ak\u015fam\u0131 (d\u00fcn) ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilen ve \u201cHayatla Ba\u015fa \u00c7\u0131kabilen \u00c7ocuklar\u201d konulu bu 3. seminerimiz \u00d6zge han\u0131m\u0131n bir \u00f6nceki [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":748,"featured_media":12303,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[504],"tags":[515,511,510,512,479,513,517,520,521,87,519,518],"class_list":["post-12309","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eski-duyurular","tag-adler","tag-anne","tag-anne-baba","tag-baba","tag-cigdemim","tag-cocuk","tag-hayatla-basa-cikmak","tag-psikolojik-saglamlik","tag-resilience","tag-seminer","tag-social-interest","tag-sosyal-ilgi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12309","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/748"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12309"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12309\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12303"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12309"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12309"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12309"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}