{"id":12509,"date":"2020-09-07T22:41:20","date_gmt":"2020-09-07T19:41:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/?p=12509"},"modified":"2020-09-09T00:53:51","modified_gmt":"2020-09-08T21:53:51","slug":"cigdemli-olmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/?p=12509","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7\u0130\u011eDEML\u0130 OLMAK!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u00c7\u0130\u011eDEML\u0130 OLMAK <\/u><\/strong> (EYL\u00dcL-2020)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00fcbehher \u00d6zbek \u2013 Ebru Sitesi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Emekli olmu\u015ftum. Pek \u00e7ok arkada\u015f\u0131m gibi ben de ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131n daha iyi oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm  mahalle ve semtlerden  ev bakmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bunu \u00f6\u011frenen bir arkada\u015f\u0131m \u201c\u00c7i\u011fdem Mahallesi\u2019ne bakmadan karar verme\u201d diye \u0131srar edince se\u00e7eneklere \u00c7i\u011fdem Mahallesi\u2019ni de ekledim. Pek \u00e7ok yere bakmama ra\u011fmen karar verememi\u015ftim. Bir de \u00c7i\u011fdem Mahallesi\u2019ne bakal\u0131m diye o\u011flumla yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131k. K\u0131z\u0131lay\u2019dan otob\u00fcse bindik. Ula\u015f\u0131m\u0131 kolayd\u0131. K\u0131sa s\u00fcrede mahalleye varm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k.  Karar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 etkileyecek iki madde ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015fti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otob\u00fcsten inince, mahalle  bize \u201cHo\u015f geldiniz\u201d demi\u015f olacak ki,  daha evleri g\u00f6rmeden buradan alabiliriz duygusu bizi sard\u0131 sarmalad\u0131. ODT\u00dc\u2019n\u00fcn de yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 eklenince, o\u011flum \u201cAlacaksak buras\u0131 olsun\u201d diye kesin bir tav\u0131r koydu ve biz evlere bakmaya ba\u015flad\u0131k. K\u0131smet Ebru Sitesi\u2019ymi\u015f.  Tam 20 y\u0131l oldu. Zaman zaman k\u00f6peklerden bunalsam da, g\u00f6nl\u00fcm de akl\u0131m da iyi ki bu mahalleyi se\u00e7mi\u015fim der. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ba\u015fkentin g\u00f6be\u011finde, ba\u015fkentten uzak olan  mahallemde ye\u015filli\u011fin, temiz havan\u0131n ve rahat\u00e7a y\u00fcr\u00fcyebilmenin mutlulu\u011fu ile  ya\u015farken \u00c7i\u011fdemim Derne\u011fi ile tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Edebiyat Toplulu\u011funun kitap okuma   etkinli\u011fi ile ilgili duyurusunu okuyunca kat\u0131lmaya karar verdim.  Arkadaki barakada,  sa\u00e7 soban\u0131n \u0131s\u0131tmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ortamda bir araya gelen kitapseverler   Sabahattin Ali\u2019yi ve  K\u00fcrk Mantolu Madonna adl\u0131 kitab\u0131n\u0131  tan\u0131maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlard\u0131. Soban\u0131n yetersiz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131  ortam\u0131, edebiyat\u0131n ve sanat\u0131n s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131   \u0131s\u0131t\u0131yordu. Derne\u011fi ve Sabahattin Ali\u2019yi tan\u0131man\u0131n mutlulu\u011fu ile eve d\u00f6nerken i\u00e7imdeki ses bir kez daha  \u201c\u0130yi ki \u00c7i\u011fdem olmu\u015f\u201d diye tekrarl\u0131yordu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Emekli biri i\u00e7in gerekli t\u00fcm olanaklar vard\u0131 mahallemde. Parklar, spor olanaklar\u0131, etkinlikler, topluluklar, kurslar\u2026 Se\u00e7enekler o kadar \u00e7ok ki yeti\u015femiyorsun bile.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mahallemi k\u00f6peklerle payla\u015fmaktan pek mutlu olmasam da hala \u00e7ok seviyorum. Bir de \u015eirindere sorunu var. Umar\u0131m o da en k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcl\u00fcr. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her insan iyi bir yerde ya\u015famak ister, fakat ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yeri iyi bir yere d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmeyi pek beceremez. Bu konuda \u00f6rnek olan \u00c7i\u011fdemim Derne\u011fi benim i\u00e7in  b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015fans oldu. Bilmediklerimi \u00f6\u011frenip, bilebildiklerimi payla\u015f\u0131rken, hayat\u0131m anlam kazand\u0131 ve zenginle\u015fti. 20 y\u0131ld\u0131r, ben mi mahalleyle harmanland\u0131m, mahalle mi beni kucaklad\u0131 bilmiyorum, ama soranlara \u201c\u00c7i\u011fdemliyim\u201d demeye ba\u015flad\u0131m.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsanlar isimlerinin anlamlar\u0131na uygun \u00f6zellikler ta\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. San\u0131r\u0131m mahalleler de b\u00f6yle   oluyor. \u00c7i\u011fdem Mahallesi\u2019ni  de, \u00c7i\u011fdemim Derne\u011fi\u2019ni  de \u00e7i\u011fdem \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011finin \u00f6zelliklerine benzetirim. \u00c7i\u011fdem \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi ile ilgili epeyce \u00f6yk\u00fc ve g\u00fczel s\u00f6z vard\u0131r. Benim en be\u011fendi\u011fim \u00f6yk\u00fc; Ademle Havva  cennetten kovuldu\u011funda, d\u00fcnyada   k\u0131\u015f  gitmek, bahar da gelmek i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 acele etmiyorlarm\u0131\u015f.  G\u00fcne\u015f ise sabah mahmurlu\u011fu ile yatak keyfi yaparken d\u00fcnyay\u0131 \u0131s\u0131t\u0131p \u0131s\u0131tmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda bile de\u011filmi\u015f. Giysisi olmayan Havva Adem\u2019e sar\u0131larak \u201cBiz burada ya\u015fayamay\u0131z, hemen donar\u0131z demi\u015f.\u201d O s\u0131rada  Adem, \u00e7i\u011fdem \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fine bak\u0131yormu\u015f.   Karlar\u0131n aras\u0131ndan ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p, umutla belki de isyanla g\u00fcne\u015fi arayan \u00e7i\u011fdemi g\u00f6sterip \u201d Bak Havva, bu narin \u00e7i\u00e7ek ya\u015fayabiliyorsa biz de ya\u015far\u0131z\u201d demi\u015f. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsanl\u0131k tarihi kadar uzun olmasa da, dilerim mahallem, \u00f6zelli\u011fini  yitirmeden, g\u00fczelliklerini koruyup, geli\u015ftirerek uzunnn upuzun y\u0131llar var olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00c7\u0130\u011eDEML\u0130 OLMAK  (EYL\u00dcL-2020) M\u00fcbehher \u00d6zbek \u2013 Ebru Sitesi Emekli olmu\u015ftum. Pek \u00e7ok arkada\u015f\u0131m gibi ben de ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131n daha iyi oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm  mahalle ve semtlerden  ev bakmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bunu \u00f6\u011frenen bir arkada\u015f\u0131m \u201c\u00c7i\u011fdem Mahallesi\u2019ne bakmadan karar verme\u201d diye \u0131srar edince se\u00e7eneklere \u00c7i\u011fdem Mahallesi\u2019ni de ekledim. Pek \u00e7ok yere bakmama ra\u011fmen karar verememi\u015ftim. Bir de \u00c7i\u011fdem Mahallesi\u2019ne bakal\u0131m diye […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12512,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[576],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12509","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-online-dergi-yazilari"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12509","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12509"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12509\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12512"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12509"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12509"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12509"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}