{"id":12527,"date":"2020-09-09T10:23:41","date_gmt":"2020-09-09T07:23:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/?p=12527"},"modified":"2020-09-09T15:47:58","modified_gmt":"2020-09-09T12:47:58","slug":"12527","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/?p=12527","title":{"rendered":"ANNE BABA SEM\u0130NERLER\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

ANNE BABA SEM\u0130NERLER\u0130<\/u><\/strong> EYL\u00dcL-2020<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Elvan Akbay \u2013 \u00c7aml\u0131k Sitesi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Derne\u011fimizin d\u00fczenledi\u011fi ve AGREGA Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k firmas\u0131ndan Say\u0131n \u00d6zge Tecell\u0130\u2019nin 4-10 A\u011fustos 2020 tarihleri aras\u0131nda 4 oturumda verdi\u011fi anne baba seminerleri, sadece k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 olan anne-babalar i\u00e7in de\u011fil, bizim gibi \u00e7ocu\u011funu b\u00fcy\u00fctm\u00fc\u015f olan ebeveynler i\u00e7in de hem \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla ileti\u015fimlerinde hem de her t\u00fcrl\u00fc insan ili\u015fkisinde ge\u00e7erli olabilecek \u00e7ok de\u011ferli bilgileri i\u00e7eriyordu. \u00c7ok faydaland\u0131\u011f\u0131m bu etkinlikler serisi i\u00e7in \u00c7i\u011fdemim Derne\u011fimize ve Say\u0131n \u00d6zge Tecelli\u2019ye te\u015fekk\u00fcr ederim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u015fa\u011f\u0131da her oturuma ait \u00f6zet bilgiler mevcuttur. Seminerlerin tamam\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7eren youtube kay\u0131tlar\u0131n\u0131 izlemek i\u00e7in l\u00fctfen youtube kanal\u0131na giriniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. SEM\u0130NER: CESARETLEND\u0130RME<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d6zge Tecelli \u00f6nce cesaretin “ne olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131” tan\u0131mlad\u0131 ve cesaretin, g\u00f6z\u00fc karal\u0131k, korkusuzluk ve de\u011fi\u015fim olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. As\u0131l cesaretin, vazge\u00e7mek oldu\u011funu belirttikten sonra \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzla ya da ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla kuraca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z huzurlu bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7in gereken tek \u015feyin “cesaretlendirme” oldu\u011funun alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Daha sonra a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da belirtilen 4 temel duyguyu hissetmenin \u00f6neminden bahsetti. Bu duygular;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Kendisini ait hissetmek,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Kendisini yeterli hissetmek,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Kendisini de\u011ferli hissetmek,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Kendisini cesur hissetmek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d6zge Tecelli ,\u201cBen kimim?\u201d ve \u201cBen kim olmal\u0131y\u0131m?\u201d sorular\u0131 aras\u0131ndaki k\u00f6pr\u00fc uzad\u0131k\u00e7a, yani mesafe artt\u0131k\u00e7a ya\u015fanan sorunun b\u00fcy\u00fcyece\u011fini ve profesyonel yard\u0131m alman\u0131n gereklili\u011fini belirttikten sonra cesaretlendirmenin 10 ilkesinden bahsetti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d6zge h<\/s>Han\u0131m\u0131n kendi hayat\u0131ndan ve tan\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131ndan verdi\u011fi \u00f6rneklerle zenginle\u015ftirdi\u011fi seminer, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00fczel dileklerin iletilmesiyle sonland\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. SEM\u0130NER: \u00c7OCUKLAR NE \u0130STER, ANNE BABALAR NE YAPAR?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adeta bir aile toplant\u0131s\u0131 gibi s\u0131cak ve samimi bir \u015fekilde ba\u015flayan ve sonuna kadar ayn\u0131 g\u00fczellikte devam eden bu ikinci seminerimizde, \u00d6zge Tecelli sordu\u011fu sorularla kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131n da konuya dahil olmalar\u0131n\u0131, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla biraz daha kayna\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130lk soru \u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n nas\u0131l olmas\u0131n\u0131 isteriz?\u201ddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Buna \u201cEtikleri olan, mutlu, sorumluluk sahibi, sevgi dolu, do\u011fa ve hayvan sevgisi olan, azimli\u201d gibi \u00e7ok \u00e7e\u015fitli cevaplar verildi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir sonraki soru \u015fuydu: \u201cG\u00f6zlemledi\u011finiz kadar\u0131yla hata yapan \u00e7ocu\u011fa anne babalar nas\u0131l davran\u0131yor?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu soruya da \u201cAzar, dayak, \u00e7eki\u015ftirme, ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslama\u201d gibi cevaplar iletildi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Daha sonra \u00d6zge Han\u0131m bug\u00fcn\u00fcn k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve yar\u0131n\u0131n yeti\u015fkininin hayatla m\u00fccadelesiyle ilgili \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir konuya daha de\u011findi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckken bisiklete binmek, y\u00fczmek gibi yeni \u015feyler \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fimiz s\u0131rada kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zorluklarla ba\u015f etme y\u00f6ntemimizle, bug\u00fcn yeti\u015fkinken kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcklerle m\u00fccadele ve ba\u015f etme y\u00f6ntemimizin birebir ayn\u0131 oldu\u011funu, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckken bize o zorluklarda yard\u0131mc\u0131 olan ki\u015finin asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir \u015fey yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bize sorun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc konusunda yol g\u00f6sterdi\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seminerin ilerleyen dakikalar\u0131nda \u00d6zge Han\u0131m, cesaretlendirme konusunda doyurulmas\u0131 gereken 4 temel duygu ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131lanmamas\u0131 durumunda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n nas\u0131l davranabilece\u011fine dair \u00e7ok de\u011ferli ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 verdi. \u00d6rne\u011fin, aidiyet hissetmeyen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun dikkat \u00e7ekmek i\u00e7in a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flarda bulunaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya da kendini yeterli hissetmeyen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun s\u00fcrekli inatla\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bir g\u00fc\u00e7 sava\u015f\u0131na girece\u011fini anlatt\u0131. Bu tav\u0131rlar\u0131 dikkatle izledi\u011fimiz takdirde de \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzun asl\u0131nda neye ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu rahatl\u0131kla anlayabilece\u011fimizi s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lara bir de \u00f6dev veren Tecelli, seminer sonunda kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131n yorum, soru, ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 iletmelerini rica etti ve bitmesini istemedi\u011fimiz bu seminer kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00fczel dileklerle sonland\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. SEM\u0130NER: HAYATLA BA\u015eA \u00c7IKAB\u0130LEN \u00c7OCUKLAR<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu seminerimiz, \u00d6zge han\u0131m\u0131n 2. seminerde verdi\u011fi \u00f6dev \u00fczerinde hep birlikte konu\u015farak ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Daha sonra \u00d6zge Han\u0131m, olaylara verdi\u011fimiz tepkilerin salt d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden de\u011fil, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme sonras\u0131 hissetti\u011fimiz duygulardan da kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Yani \u00f6nce bir olay oluyor, bunun \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce devreye giriyor, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme sonras\u0131nda bir duygumuz olu\u015fuyor ve buna g\u00f6re tepki veriyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yine kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lara sorular sorarak s\u00fcrece d\u00e2hil olmalar\u0131n\u0131 ve kalabal\u0131k bir ortamda olmalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131n kendilerini t\u00fcm i\u00e7tenlikleriyle ifade etmelerini sa\u011flayan Tecelli, doyurulmas\u0131 gereken 4 duyguyu ve bu duygular kar\u015f\u0131lanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n nas\u0131l tepki verebileceklerini \u00f6zetledikten sonra bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n yarar\u0131na olacak bir \u015fey yapma iste\u011fini yani \u201csosyal ilgi (social interest)\u201d kavram\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d6zge han\u0131m \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za bu 4 beceriyi kazand\u0131rmak, bir ba\u015fka deyi\u015fle ait, de\u011ferli, yeterli ve cesur hissetmek olarak s\u0131n\u0131fland\u0131r\u0131lan bu 4 duygunun doyurulmas\u0131 i\u00e7in yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekenleri anlatt\u0131. Bir \u00f6rnek verecek olursak, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendini yeterli hissedebilmesi i\u00e7in kendini kontrol etmeyi \u00f6\u011frenmesinin sa\u011flanmas\u0131n\u0131n gereklili\u011fini vurgulad\u0131. Daha sonra da hepsi ayn\u0131 anlama gelen psikolojik sa\u011flaml\u0131k, resilience, y\u0131lmazl\u0131k, esneklik, psikolojik dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k kavramlar\u0131ndan bahsetti ve bu sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131 da umut, heves, gayret, iyimserlik, iyile\u015fmeye inan\u00e7 ve ba\u015fka yollar bulmaya inan\u00e7la sa\u011flayabilece\u011fimizi belirtti ve son b\u00f6l\u00fcmde yine kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lardan gelen sorular\u0131 yan\u0131tlayarak semineri sonland\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her seminerde oldu\u011fu gibi bu sefer de ba\u015fkan\u0131m\u0131z Fatih Bey mentimeter arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla, seminer sonras\u0131nda akl\u0131m\u0131zda kalan 3 kelimeyi sordu ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 iyi dileklerde bulunarak toplant\u0131dan ayr\u0131ld\u0131k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. SEM\u0130NER: EVDE PS\u0130KOLOJ\u0130K SA\u011eLAMLIK AKT\u0130V\u0130TELER\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu seminerimiz, Fatih Bey\u2019in mentimeter \u00fczerinden “\u00d6nceki 3 seminerden akl\u0131n\u0131zda kalan 3 kelime \/ c\u00fcmle nedir?” sorusuyla ba\u015flad\u0131. Daha sonra \u00d6zge Han\u0131m Adler’den bir al\u0131nt\u0131 yaparak “Ki\u015fi, kendi ki\u015fili\u011finin sanat\u00e7\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r” diyerek konu\u015fmas\u0131na devam etti ve “self encouragement (kendi kendini cesaretlendirme)”‘nin \u00f6nemini ve bunu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za \u00f6\u011fretmemizin gereklili\u011fini vurgulad\u0131. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7ocu\u011fun cesaretlendirilmesindeki en \u00f6nemli y\u00f6ntemlerden biri olan aile toplant\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n nas\u0131l yap\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bu toplant\u0131da neler konu\u015fulaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ocuklara nas\u0131l g\u00f6revler verilece\u011fini, sorun \u00e7\u00f6zme y\u00f6ntemlerini detayl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde anlatan \u00d6zge Han\u0131m, seminer sonunda sorular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yan\u0131tlad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her seminerde oldu\u011fu gibi bu sefer de ba\u015fkan\u0131m\u0131z Fatih Bey mentimeter arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla, bu 4 seminer hakk\u0131ndaki fikirlerimizi sordu ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 iyi dileklerde bulunarak toplant\u0131dan ayr\u0131ld\u0131k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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ANNE BABA SEM\u0130NERLER\u0130 EYL\u00dcL-2020 Elvan Akbay \u2013 \u00c7aml\u0131k Sitesi Derne\u011fimizin d\u00fczenledi\u011fi ve AGREGA Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k firmas\u0131ndan Say\u0131n \u00d6zge Tecell\u0130\u2019nin 4-10 A\u011fustos 2020 tarihleri aras\u0131nda 4 oturumda verdi\u011fi anne baba seminerleri, sadece k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 olan anne-babalar i\u00e7in de\u011fil, bizim gibi \u00e7ocu\u011funu b\u00fcy\u00fctm\u00fc\u015f olan ebeveynler i\u00e7in de hem \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla ileti\u015fimlerinde hem de her t\u00fcrl\u00fc insan ili\u015fkisinde ge\u00e7erli olabilecek […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12322,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[576],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12527","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-online-dergi-yazilari"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12527","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12527"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12527\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12322"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12527"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12527"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cigdemim.org.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12527"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}